Now remember people, National Coming Out Day is on its way. If you “come out” on facebook as straight and/or cis, an ally, a brony, a fucking whovian, or anything other than a marginalized sexual orientation and/or gender identity, I will ram my boot so far up your ass you’ll be tasting Vans for weeks.
False rape accusations are an anomaly.
True rape accusations are a norm.
You’re, quite literally, more likely to be killed by a comet than falsely accused of rape.
Re-blog now, read later.
"Because 1 in 33 men will be raped in his lifetime, men are 82,000x more likely to be raped than falsely accused of rape. It seems many of us would do well to pay more attention to how rape culture affects us all than be paranoid about false accusers.”
i’m not even confused about my sexuality i just don’t really give a shit
I created a simple web banner for a client and sent it off a .jpg via email for approval.
The client printed out the .jpg, took that paper and put it in a typewriter. Yes, an honest-to-goodness typewriter, and penned a short approval note and a query of “when would this be printed?”
The client then scanned the paper with the printed .jpg and typed note before they emailed me back a PDF as an attachment to an email that just stated, “Please see attached.”
I have a HUGE issue with the kpop/jpop industry in that firstly it is fatphobic as fuck. the girls in kpop/jpop groups are constantly forced to go on crazy diets like for example the “lettuce diet” where they’re only allowed to eat lettuce to stay skinny and if they’re even a kilogram “overweight” they’ll be fat shamed and mocked and told they’re not worthy, despite the fact that they’re actually still slim and nowhere close to being fat (which shouldn’t be seen as a problem but it is). idols are constantly being watched and every single thing they do are policed.
another problem is the male fans. yes I am aware that #NotAllMen are guilty of this but it’s so obvious that the “no dating” rule (they’re allowed to date but it must be kept a complete secret, nobody can know) applied to young k-idols and j-idols are there to cater to those creepy males which make up such a large amount of the male fandom and their fantasies. these idols need to keep up this “youthful and innocent” appearance which is undoubtedly there to please the male fandom who are so obsessed with the “purity” of the girls. so many of them (and honestly I’ve seen so many of you on the dash do this too) infantize these girls and at the same sexualise them and it’s creepy as hell, prime example is Kyary Pamyu Pamyu, who is known for her “childish” appearance and yall are absolutely obsessed and sexualise the hell out of her and it’s disgusting.
these are giant flaws in the industry and I just thought to bring it up because I feel like it’s not talked about enough and its a huge problem. the treatment of the girls is appalling and heavily misogynistic and it actually needs to stop
i forgot that the reason i opened tumblr in the first place was to mention that at least i got new jeggings
that was like one of the most meh and also emotionally tumultuous birthdays i’ve had
it was wholly underwhelming idk i guess that’s par the course for birthdays
i wish i could go back to sleep but i think it might be too late at this point
i have work to finish today
it’s just like, why are there cat emojis for loads of emotions as well as normal humans emojis
like, when do i need to express these emotions… but as a cat
they’re not for you… they’re for ME
I was melancholy and then I ate jimmy johns and now I’m ok again
i got drunk in walmart
so incredibly emotionally unstable right now
like the littlest thing just made me almost start crying
im gonna buy more wine
and then im gonna drink it on the quad
it’s not even 4pm yet